The Most Significant Aha! Moment of My Life and Welcome!
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I had taken so many courses and read so many books searching for the answers of “finding myself” and to challenging relationships. Although those courses were a big part of my personal growth, I still didn’t understand myself or have the relationship answers I was searching for.
The most significant Aha! moment of my life was when I first read my own Enneagram (any-a-gram) Personality Profile.
For most of my life I had been confused by how others were reacting and specifically to me. It just did not make sense. I focused on doing what I thought they wanted to receive such as attention, support, inspiration and “being there” for them. Yet, it felt as though as I was not getting what I needed to feel loved and valued in return.
I had just taken the Enneagram Quiz, a one hundred and forty-four question assessment of my personality type. As I was given the detailed description of my personality type (a HELPER or #2 on the Enneagram), it was like reading my own operator’s manual. The descriptor words about how others saw me were surreal. How could it be so accurate? There were so many things I didn't know about myself - why it’s so important for me to be liked, looking for approval, and people-pleasing. Also that people valued my relationship skills.
It was so enlightening what I learned about myself. .Yes, I do that! No, I don’t, really, Yes I do. Wow!
The Enneagram is your Operator’s Manual for each of the nine personality types showing you what to expect from each style. If you thought of each of the nine personality types as a different culture, you would understand that while still functioning in everyday life, each culture has their specific traditions and acceptable behavior codes. Similarly each personality type has identifiable behavior and predictable patterns.
The Enneagram comes from an ancient body of wisdom that holds the key to unlocking true understanding of the depth of our being and other people, in a kind and compassionate way. It simplifies our lives by helping us understand why we do what we do. The Enneagram is an awareness map of consciousness that illuminates the nine ways of being in the world, and gives deep insight into nine fundamentally different personality perspectives, each with their own way of seeing the world, their own attitudes and ways of thinking, reacting and behaving.
When we understand the 9 personality perspectives, the patterns of our lives finally make sense. We experience profound self-acceptance and clarity of purpose, and discover how to live through positivity and find lasting personal fulfilment.
Take The Enneagram Quiz For Free http://www.eileenhead.com/#!takethequiz/cfvg.
I invite you to book me for a free session after you have completed the quiz. I can help you to clarify, answer questions and share insights!
To Your Best Life!
ps: Check out the blog here as well for a description example of a Helper!