Loving Through Your Differences - Personality Couple Dynamics
The biggest challenge in ALL relationship dynamics is your personality differences. Each of the 9 Enneagam
personalities has their own way of seeing the world, their own attitudes and ways of thinking, reacting and behaving.
In a survey I did with couples I asked three questions relating to personality differences:
Challenges: How do we deal with our personality differences that cause us stress and conflict.
Frustrations: We don't know what to do with our differences and keep having the same fights over and over again. Each feels misunderstood and unappreciated for their differences.
Greatest FEAR: That our differences are going to break us apart if we don't know how to resolve them.
It is your personality differences that creates the confusion, disconnection and frustration.
GREAT NEWS! Learning your personality couple dynamics and how to deal with them can reconnect you with your partner and rejuvenate the relationship.
Rather than attempting to get your partner to share their deepest feelings...which they don't know how to do and makes them really uncomfortable or they would already be doing that.... you relate through your natural personality traits and patterns. It is like having an Operator's Manual to understanding each other.
This is a very positive and FUN way to shift dynamics. My coaching is very specific and can get fast results!
COUPLES - RELATIONSHIP REPAIR
RECONNECT AND RENEW YOUR LOVE
In a this very short period of time and with the information in the profiles I guarantee there will be a noticeable difference in your relationship.
Identify the key dynamics that determines successful relationships.
1. Awareness to meet each other's core emotional needs
2. Be Giving- both needs matter
3. Understanding & communicating and responding to each other's needs
4. Identify and manage your own patterns that may be sabotaging the relationship
Each of you has fundamental emotional needs to feel loved. Often we have no idea what those are for ourselves let alone sharing or understanding your partners needs until you learn your personality "wiring".
Learn your personality loving style and your relationship connection equation. Make your relationship better, stronger, more dynamic.
-Your personality similarities and differences as a couple
-How each of you individually feels loved and appreciated
-How to support your partner without enabling
-Practices that will build connection and deepen love
- Key dynamics for what really matters to both of you
- How to respond to each other more effectively
- What specific responses are you looking for and why you need them
- How to consciously nourish each other to thrive
- Identify conflict triggers , why, and how to negotiate
- When you are "over the top" and how to manage yourself
- Show relationship strengths and challenges together
- Change reaction patterns to de-stress situations
- Gifts you bring to the relationship
- Increase compatibility and deepen love
Let's Get Started On Your Transfomation Journey NOW!!!
I left a 35 year marriage because I couldn't figure us out. We were two great people, same values, same goals and yet just not a connection...or the connnection I needed to feel loved. I have discovered that I did not know what that was for myself so how could my husband give that to me. Through that experience I found the Enneagram (any-a-gram) personalities and it has transformed my life and All my relationships. I have found happiness within myself and life is much juicier. Learn More